Why You Miss the Person Who Hurt You

Why You Miss the Person Who Hurt You

It was real love. So why does it feel like withdrawal?

Unpredictable love wires in deeper. Warm, then cold, then warm again.

It's called intermittent reinforcement. It doesn't replace love. It amplifies it.

So you're grieving twice. The person you loved, and the pattern your brain got hooked on.

The love was real. The wiring is real too. You can honor one and heal the other.